i am guy in my twenties just started my career. just like any normal guys i have gone though the college life were every things are good, smooth and clean.
i had a stage when i was in “love” that what my friends say. it was strong feeling hitting you. i saw a girl at my tutoring class fell for her beautiful charm. at first it was really hard crush at this girl. which lend me the courage to go out and speak to her. well that didn’t worked out very well. after that i didn’t loose my hope to win her i kept a possibility. a possibility that’s what i had, did’t try to work some way out or any thing just a possibility.now after almost six year . she is married happily to some guy.
my friends mark me as “looser”. for not doing anything and just letting her and loosing.
all the discussions part. what is “love” ? certainly felling for a girl just for her charm is not a “love” its just “crush”. so when does this “crush” become “pure love” when your get to know the person.its that other persons understanding towards you is what “lovable”. of all the friends part there is this special one person who is determined to go all the way. now that is “love”.what i had with this girl was not “love” its really a deep feel of “crush”.
so when nothing much happened after that “crush” moment. how to you define that as love and say you lost the “love of the life”. i don’t denied that i don’t remember her charming face.the moments where really fascinating. but it was not much of a love i would say rather a crazy phase. which happen in you life.
if you wanna comment that its just my excuse to not marked a looser. then i think you have not understand about “love”.